For most people talking in bed is something that’s just taboo. There may be the occasional moan or some sort of pillow talk but talking to each other is typically a no-no. If that sounds like you then maybe it’s time to change the way you think in order to get the best experience possible while in bed. You don’t need to go all out but there are things that you can say that can really spice up your adventures in the bedroom.
Tell Your Partner How You Feel
No one can read minds and if you don’t let your partner know how you are feeling then chances are you’re not going to get the most out of the experience. Just by letting them know your mood you can give them an insight to what you’re looking for.
For example, if you’re feeling emotional and wanting more of an emotional connection then letting them know that means they’ll more than likely give you that experience. If you don’t and they think you are in a ‘frisky’ mode then you may have an experience that you don’t enjoy nearly as much. So just by letting them know during or after can have an effect.
What are you Wearing
Just as emotions can play a huge role in your bedroom adventures, how you dress can also throw some clues into the mix. Of course if you’re into heavy bdsm then you’ll have special outfits for that. But for many people things are much more subtle. And for women it can be even more difficult for a man to determine based on their attire alone.
Your outfit can be a huge factor in the adventure but make sure you keep to a steady tone. If you use an outfit for one situation don’t wear the same outfit for something else. This will only confuse your partner and could ruin the experience for them if they are expecting one thing and you deliver something entirely different.
What you’re Saying
You also need to know that what you say during the session is important as well. You need to talk as if you’re in the moment. Don’t talk as you’re in the moment of something totally different. Let yourself go and tell them how you feel and what you want. It’s important to be open and let them know you enjoy things.
One of the best ways to do this is with a course that was recently released called the Language of Desire. Its an ebook that teaches you what to say and when to get the most out of your session. One of the articles on relationships touched on the subject and I must say it’s pretty good course. Pick up a copy today and make the most of your sessions together.
Talk in the Right Tone
I hope this article let’s you know more about how the tone you use plays a huge role in your bedroom adventures. If you haven’t tried any of the methods mentioned then I urge you to do so tonight. Comment below and let me know how it goes.
Tell Your Partner How You Feel
No one can read minds and if you don’t let your partner know how you are feeling then chances are you’re not going to get the most out of the experience. Just by letting them know your mood you can give them an insight to what you’re looking for.
For example, if you’re feeling emotional and wanting more of an emotional connection then letting them know that means they’ll more than likely give you that experience. If you don’t and they think you are in a ‘frisky’ mode then you may have an experience that you don’t enjoy nearly as much. So just by letting them know during or after can have an effect.
What are you Wearing
Just as emotions can play a huge role in your bedroom adventures, how you dress can also throw some clues into the mix. Of course if you’re into heavy bdsm then you’ll have special outfits for that. But for many people things are much more subtle. And for women it can be even more difficult for a man to determine based on their attire alone.
Your outfit can be a huge factor in the adventure but make sure you keep to a steady tone. If you use an outfit for one situation don’t wear the same outfit for something else. This will only confuse your partner and could ruin the experience for them if they are expecting one thing and you deliver something entirely different.
What you’re Saying
You also need to know that what you say during the session is important as well. You need to talk as if you’re in the moment. Don’t talk as you’re in the moment of something totally different. Let yourself go and tell them how you feel and what you want. It’s important to be open and let them know you enjoy things.
One of the best ways to do this is with a course that was recently released called the Language of Desire. Its an ebook that teaches you what to say and when to get the most out of your session. One of the articles on relationships touched on the subject and I must say it’s pretty good course. Pick up a copy today and make the most of your sessions together.
Talk in the Right Tone
I hope this article let’s you know more about how the tone you use plays a huge role in your bedroom adventures. If you haven’t tried any of the methods mentioned then I urge you to do so tonight. Comment below and let me know how it goes.